Extraordinary to becoming ordinary!

After you break out or break in, all you will ever want to see is to attain that extraordinary inspired by someone else. All this, because why?

There is a real post below picked up from social media:

"Hello, my name is Agnieszka, I'm 19 year old girl from Poland. Since I was 7, I have been suffering from Rheumatoid Arthritis. Many people think that success is leading an extraordinary life. To me, the biggest success I will ever achieve is managing to live an ordinary, normal life. I am undergoing chemotherapy as my treatment and often doing simple, normal and casual tasks seems like a great deal. Living in constant discomfort, pain and dealing with all the side effects of the medications, make it very difficult to function normally.However, I've managed to get into university. I manage to study. I still smile. I’m still in pursuit of the love of my life. I still try new things. I still welcome all the challenges coming at me and despite the pain, I continue developing myself, playing piano, travelling, and learning.You don't have to lead an extraordinary life to be successful. As long as you do what makes you happy, you've already succeeded.I see very little of such content and I find it inspiring when I see someone achieve their goals despite the health issues they have. I would love to see people share their stories of overcoming illnesses and diseases.So how do you define a successful life?"- Agnieszka

All the TED talks, all the entrepreneurial thoughtful quotations, all that misleading content on the web. To what?

1. Be committed than finding motivation.

That one day when you start waking up early and join gyming or boxing is important not about pasting posters of quotations of Mohammad Ali or Pink Floyd.

2. Reliance is never a good choice.

It is dependence, independence and then interdependence. You will start with private victory, over yourself and then move on with being independent to put your things first and lastly public victory by synergising your thoughts ahead.

3. Journey is important not the destiny.

You will carry an emotional burden always and not find to enjoy your present moments. It’s about that game you have to enjoy while playing and not think about killing the villain. Just like snake arcades. Don’t lose perspective of life but be working on what makes you happy but in a disciplined manner.

4. Don’t be nice to yourself.

When your bed holds you in the morning, it won’t be the same when go back to sleep that day. Action brings results. And sometimes what you do won’t yield results as you would have desired of. Ask yourself why? You wait for the perfect timing, an opportunity, while you drive yourself into stagnant thoughts and sometimes even into depression. Get out there, challenge yourself, do something that you don’t want to do.

5. Don’t Stop.

Be it what comes, you have to take on it through its horns. You are living a life of a human, the one who pets you will bring food otherwise. Your determination will only count. No hours, no amount of labour, no amount of money will ever be as same as it is.

In Your Twenties!

By the time you reach 25, Not yet sure what is that you were doing and if it is right or wrong. Many people go through this quarter life crisis, which is - "I'm going to work harder, and go to the gym, and do everything I can to achieve something, anything.'" But being unsure about what exactly.

Here are few signs that you've reached the transitional quarter life crisis:

You've started splurging on things you don't need.

If really there is anything that a person would need is basic meals and exclusive deals for their daily living. But are you really worried about getting that new car or fancy new iPhone - for what, to make calls and browse internet? A near colleague may ask you to not stress out and have a chilled beer while going from work - and you think, it's a good idea unless you are hemmed into it and it becomes often than not your regular Fridays!

This is the time you may explore but not on your pockets! Get yourself controlled and think through what best outcome that Friday night could get you?

All groan up!

This is when you start cribbing about what you can and cannot do. Seldom at work, one would appreciate another colleague but to what extent, "Thanks for getting me a coffee"? Oh boy! you've attained a degree to do what - transfer emails and write content that isn't even for you. Groaning will help you sometimes to think it over in an abyss, while you are still growing up.

And suddenly you will realise nothing is taking you anywhere. Be calm and grow on what is coming towards. Either you become an X-men, or excel in what you are doing at that moment. Not saying that you be trapped if you don't like doing it but wait for the right time and try not giving in.

Forever 21.

While you are listening a track you will attain a sense of contentment at few pitches of the song. But it won't come back to you when you hear it again - that is momentary. So, laws of the universe says that you may feel to be in the same event in your life, twice! - Ok, that's a lot of science that I have read and this is how you feel - déjà vu, a feeling that you've already experienced it before.

Coming back, you should try to live in present enjoy your moments and live experiences of your life that they might not come back to you, ever again. Even if they do, you won't be forever 21.

Zero balance account is zero balance, still.

How much have you saved till date? 

There is nothing better than securing your future with the whatever best you could do in your present. You don't owe any explanation to anyone for the life choices you make. But you better be brave enough to stand your choice and if it goes wrong, you still be better experienced.

Control, or let them!

Sometimes things don't work like we have planned, therefore we tend to do jobs that are not meant for us, the hierarchical strides that put us working all like slaves and embossing our priorities with their rules. Life for me carries a different equation altogether; it is like getting to solve people's problem with what I already have and how I am able to.

Some people love to travel, among others who fill their life with occasional dip in spirits. Some people need the world to know how they are making this world a better place. When people really get out of their fictional zone and face reality, they realise the best output of their thoughts. We just feel trapped even when we have nothing to do, we tend to keep ourselves occupied doing irrelevant things but zilch.

We are humans, humans with need, need that transcends to want, want that is as perilous as war. This is how have humans come together to create war but love. Without having to know it's dire consequences, we get ourselves to one direction that isn't ours. It is but made for us, by the people we have faith in. By the belief we put on someone or something (be it religion, be it God).

Now, for a brief moment, just imagine life where you are not accountable to anyone, you do what you feel like, buy stuff that you love, travel wherever you want to, be with people you want to be, enjoy sex, get high, steal something, hurt someone, hate or even kill someone. And you have nothing to sob on, but just do what you want. At the end of it, you will be a person of regret. Then don't even feel the guilt of it. Just shamelessly do what you ever desire for. After all, who is there to judge, who is that you even obey. People who are exposed to doing these things, they don't feel guilt. What they think right is right. They don't have anyone to judge them. It's a world you think where actions have no consequences, where guilt is cloaked by self-proclaimed righteousness. An invisible universe that is there, emptying your conscience, every minute of a time.

This notion, it has to be wrong. That's why humans have created for themselves, something more powerful and it is not God. It is that power that holds them for long, making them eventually habitual to choose, in fact select, the right decision for them. Behold yourselves, you are now being controlled. Every moment in your life is the right decision taken by someone else, for you. You just choose to be in it or on other.

You have parents, you have a boss, you believe in God, are you atheist or not, liberal? Every time you do things that you think isn't for you is actually someone else getting something out of you, not to mention, for their benefit of course. That's how it happens, your strings are in my hands.

Control yourself, before anyone else does. People having an uninformed opinion about things they don't understand to proclaim their opinion equally valid as facts is what is ruining them people. No one wants to learn about anything, they just want to be right.

A man who can't control himself, shall feel pity! - Anonymous