Start With Why!

Life ages from the time we realize our soul is fitted inside a body that is going to die anyway. What can you do? Best life lessons are learnt at your worst. 

Lack of confidence, gloom and doom, distrust and anxiousness.

These negative characteristics may get you very down in life when nothing goes right on track. You feel you could die easy. Now that there is no motivation in life. What would you even do to live ahead?

Although we can't get over that there won't be despair, anxiety or discouragement in life. But as a person of will, you should never let these thoughts take over your life. There's a 4:1 lifestyle meaning, creating four positive thoughts for every negative one, to keep situations from getting out of hand.

While self-introspection can be a key ingredient to a happy, mindful life, these new findings seem to drive home the point that rumination is just not good for us. 

Are you incapable?

That feeling of not able to do anything in life, unable to achieve anything, so inept that it can be disastrous. To overcome and realize what you can do in your life follow these simple steps to understand better:

1. Be curious

Curiosity for everything or anything will help you gain knowledge about it and you will be able to understand the situation to learn how it can help you achieve, not your goals, but what and if you even want that to start with.

2. Match your frequency

Heard of the feeling, "Butterflies in your stomach"? Whenever you flip a coin, the most probable outcome is what you are actually thinking about. Before the coin lands flat with the decision, you knew what you want. That's that frequency. 

3. Space out yourself

The best way to understand what you actually want is to space out yourself from the things you want to be with. This is an elimination round; where you actually eliminate the least required options of your goal to focus on the definite one.

4. Find your why!

Even though you would know what you need to do or achieve in life, but you wouldn't have a slight understanding of why are you doing what you are doing, you are a lost man. Because WHY is connected to feelings, it is like feeling what you are doing. And when you feel it, you won't question it. 

Although you can find many online books related to this, there is a 2-parts book on "START WITH WHY" & "FIND YOUR WHY" by Simon Sinek, which shall help guide you on a path to long-term success and enrichment in your life. 

#HappyDiscovering

Extraordinary to becoming ordinary!

After you break out or break in, all you will ever want to see is to attain that extraordinary inspired by someone else. All this, because why?

There is a real post below picked up from social media:

"Hello, my name is Agnieszka, I'm 19 year old girl from Poland. Since I was 7, I have been suffering from Rheumatoid Arthritis. Many people think that success is leading an extraordinary life. To me, the biggest success I will ever achieve is managing to live an ordinary, normal life. I am undergoing chemotherapy as my treatment and often doing simple, normal and casual tasks seems like a great deal. Living in constant discomfort, pain and dealing with all the side effects of the medications, make it very difficult to function normally.However, I've managed to get into university. I manage to study. I still smile. I’m still in pursuit of the love of my life. I still try new things. I still welcome all the challenges coming at me and despite the pain, I continue developing myself, playing piano, travelling, and learning.You don't have to lead an extraordinary life to be successful. As long as you do what makes you happy, you've already succeeded.I see very little of such content and I find it inspiring when I see someone achieve their goals despite the health issues they have. I would love to see people share their stories of overcoming illnesses and diseases.So how do you define a successful life?"- Agnieszka

All the TED talks, all the entrepreneurial thoughtful quotations, all that misleading content on the web. To what?

1. Be committed than finding motivation.

That one day when you start waking up early and join gyming or boxing is important not about pasting posters of quotations of Mohammad Ali or Pink Floyd.

2. Reliance is never a good choice.

It is dependence, independence and then interdependence. You will start with private victory, over yourself and then move on with being independent to put your things first and lastly public victory by synergising your thoughts ahead.

3. Journey is important not the destiny.

You will carry an emotional burden always and not find to enjoy your present moments. It’s about that game you have to enjoy while playing and not think about killing the villain. Just like snake arcades. Don’t lose perspective of life but be working on what makes you happy but in a disciplined manner.

4. Don’t be nice to yourself.

When your bed holds you in the morning, it won’t be the same when go back to sleep that day. Action brings results. And sometimes what you do won’t yield results as you would have desired of. Ask yourself why? You wait for the perfect timing, an opportunity, while you drive yourself into stagnant thoughts and sometimes even into depression. Get out there, challenge yourself, do something that you don’t want to do.

5. Don’t Stop.

Be it what comes, you have to take on it through its horns. You are living a life of a human, the one who pets you will bring food otherwise. Your determination will only count. No hours, no amount of labour, no amount of money will ever be as same as it is.