Start With Why!

Life ages from the time we realize our soul is fitted inside a body that is going to die anyway. What can you do? Best life lessons are learnt at your worst. 

Lack of confidence, gloom and doom, distrust and anxiousness.

These negative characteristics may get you very down in life when nothing goes right on track. You feel you could die easy. Now that there is no motivation in life. What would you even do to live ahead?

Although we can't get over that there won't be despair, anxiety or discouragement in life. But as a person of will, you should never let these thoughts take over your life. There's a 4:1 lifestyle meaning, creating four positive thoughts for every negative one, to keep situations from getting out of hand.

While self-introspection can be a key ingredient to a happy, mindful life, these new findings seem to drive home the point that rumination is just not good for us. 

Are you incapable?

That feeling of not able to do anything in life, unable to achieve anything, so inept that it can be disastrous. To overcome and realize what you can do in your life follow these simple steps to understand better:

1. Be curious

Curiosity for everything or anything will help you gain knowledge about it and you will be able to understand the situation to learn how it can help you achieve, not your goals, but what and if you even want that to start with.

2. Match your frequency

Heard of the feeling, "Butterflies in your stomach"? Whenever you flip a coin, the most probable outcome is what you are actually thinking about. Before the coin lands flat with the decision, you knew what you want. That's that frequency. 

3. Space out yourself

The best way to understand what you actually want is to space out yourself from the things you want to be with. This is an elimination round; where you actually eliminate the least required options of your goal to focus on the definite one.

4. Find your why!

Even though you would know what you need to do or achieve in life, but you wouldn't have a slight understanding of why are you doing what you are doing, you are a lost man. Because WHY is connected to feelings, it is like feeling what you are doing. And when you feel it, you won't question it. 

Although you can find many online books related to this, there is a 2-parts book on "START WITH WHY" & "FIND YOUR WHY" by Simon Sinek, which shall help guide you on a path to long-term success and enrichment in your life. 

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